Most Days ...

... there isn't much to say other than: I can't believe how much goes into this process.

THE THINGS IN LIFE THAT MAKE THIS WAIT WORTHWHILE:

-the thought of being able to raise a child with such a sweet, classy fella in the greatest city in the world

-weekly doses of Project Runway, the greatest TV show of our time

-seeing Calvin in his white lab coat, on his way to class

-new music: Spoon, the Flaming Lips, the Bravery, Gorillaz, Keane, Weezer

-Dan Savage's latest book, "The Commitment"

-"Families Like Mine", another great book on gay parenting

-Knowing "Brokeback Mountain" will win Best Picture and foster dialogue for years to come (the real daring love story would be two gangsta rappers in love!)

-ridiculously bad TV shows like "Best Week Ever" on VH1

-Lisa Loeb's new dating reality show "#1 Single"

-my new Levi's jeans

-Calvin's Albondigas soup

-Today's spring-like weather

-coffee